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Nice guys are the worst. I know. It sounds weird. But bear with me here. Nice guys are the ones who do everything « by the book ». Not kind. Not genuine. Just… nice. Not because they understand the deeper meaning of what they do, but because they tick a box. On a surface level, they’ve done the « right thing », they have opened the door, cooked the meal, sent the text. And yet you feel like your emotional needs are not being met. Trust that instinct. It’s because they are not. They remain...

« I had to block him », « You won’t believe what my Tinder date did » . How many times have you had to hear these words or utter them? (…) And that raises one question: what is going on with modern dating? Is the whole sense of chivalry and respect lost? Or are the men so thrown off by modern women’s behavior that they don’t know how to behave anymore? In the sea of endless possibilities and fast results, have we totally lost our sense of romance? One thing is for sure, something in modern...

Choosing yourself isn’t about being loud or turning your life upside down overnight. It also resides in the quiet moments, the ones that nobody else hears or notices. It can look like saying no without over-explaining yourself, saying yes without justification, and most of all it needs to feel right. To you. There is no magical recipe to choosing yourself. It can look drastically different from one person to another, from one day to another. What it looks like does not matter. It needs to...